RaysFTW Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 I decided to make a thread all about relationships just to get to know everyone a little bit more. I also made this because I've had quite a bit of problems with girls and there is a possibility someone can help you if you just ask in here. Like I will probably need help in the near 2 weeks because of prom and the girl that I asked out, so yeah. I hope you guys post in here as it is a very interesting topic. I will start off. Okay, so. I asked this one girl to prom about two weeks ago and our prom at our school is on May 10th. The girl that I asked is a sophomore and only juniors and seniors attend. I asked the girl if we can just chill at prom or whatever. She's in the student government, so she said if she comes to prom because the sophomores in the student government have to setup and clean up. She says she may or may not be there, but she says that if she comes there that she will hang out and stuff. I'm not really sure what that really meant, but I kind of meant to be alone and stuff because she meant to chill in a group. So some help on what I should do: meet the girl at prom (if she comes) or just go in a group. Thanks guys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 id go in a group and if she's there, hang out with her and see where it takes you. alright, im in a bit of a delima right now. theres this girl i like, shes in a relationship right now, and theres this other girl i like, she's single. i want to go out with the girl thats in the relationship more. but i dont know what to do about this! and its really messing with me lately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Kazmir - Take everything slow, but soon there's gonna be a time to make a move and see what's gonna happen. Just make sure it feels right and do it respectfully. SESbb30 - Don't focus on the girl who's taken, spend some time with the girl who's single and see if there's more to like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 I like this girl at work, she's cute, smart, nice... I've only talked to her for a few days now but everyday I am starting to like her more and more. I enjoy talking to her and I think that's why I am liking her so much. We'll see how it plays out. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 19, 2008 Author Share Posted April 19, 2008 I like this girl at work, she's cute, smart, nice... I've only talked to her for a few days now but everyday I am starting to like her more and more. I enjoy talking to her and I think that's why I am liking her so much. We'll see how it plays out. As D-Unit said, take everything slow. Just keep talking to her frequently and who knows, maybe she might start falling for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 And drop a couple hints, not all at once though. Compliment her casually, don't say anything too deep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaptorQuiz Posted April 19, 2008 Share Posted April 19, 2008 Yeah, avoiding sexual harassment in the workplace is always a smart move, too. lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 I was going to get her number today but when I saw her last my friend who works in the same department was with me so I felt that it would be too awkward. My friend (the guy who was with me) thinks she likes me as well. Again, she's really nice and we have a lot in common as I talk to her more and more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 20, 2008 Author Share Posted April 20, 2008 I was going to get her number today but when I saw her last my friend who works in the same department was with me so I felt that it would be too awkward. My friend (the guy who was with me) thinks she likes me as well. Again, she's really nice and we have a lot in common as I talk to her more and more. That's good there bro. You can write her poetry that can make her more attracted to you. Girls will either really dig your poetry and think you're really deep or think you're weird. 9 times out of 10, they will love your poetry and think you're deep. Hell, it worked for me. A guy, who can't get a girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 20, 2008 Share Posted April 20, 2008 Honestly, I think poetry could sometimes be too soon. Some girls prefer it once you're well into a relationship, others fall for the guy just because they wrote it. But showing a deep side to you always helps, so it might be worth a shot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Update: I went back to shop (lol no) and saw her again. We talked for a while and she gave me her number. I texted her last night and asked how her day went and she said "boring because i wasn't there". I just had a long conversation with her about summer and what we could do and stuff via msn. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 as in the 40 year old virgin, "Plant your seeds, then **** the seed!" i wouldnt do that, but "plant your seeds", if you know what i mean, not in a sexual way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 21, 2008 Author Share Posted April 21, 2008 Update: I went back to shop (lol no) and saw her again. We talked for a while and she gave me her number. I texted her last night and asked how her day went and she said "boring because i wasn't there". I just had a long conversation with her about summer and what we could do and stuff via msn. lol That's a good thing right there. Just remember, don't rush things. That's the last thing you want to do with the kind of momentum you have going. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Nice job Sandlot. Ask her if she has any interesting plans for next weekend. If she's free, ask if she wants to get something to eat, or even just walk and talk for a bit. Remember, nothing too physical or anything yet. Just show the appreciation and respect first, it helps in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Nice job Sandlot. Ask her if she has any interesting plans for next weekend. If she's free, ask if she wants to get something to eat, or even just walk and talk for a bit. Remember, nothing too physical or anything yet. Just show the appreciation and respect first, it helps in the long run. I agree with D-Unit, trick her into thinking you're awesome, then you can **** the seeds all you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 about the girl thats in the relationship, i know we would go out if she broke it off right now with the other guy. i rarely get a chance to talk with the other girl, i sit with her sometimes, but its kinda awkward cause im pretty good freinds with two of her ex boyfreinds, and we sit together at lunch, and if i try to make a move, they just look at me weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Nice job Sandlot. Ask her if she has any interesting plans for next weekend. If she's free, ask if she wants to get something to eat, or even just walk and talk for a bit. Remember, nothing too physical or anything yet. Just show the appreciation and respect first, it helps in the long run. We are both part timers at this job so I think she would be working on the weekend. But going back to todays conversation on msn she was telling me how cool it would be for me to go with her to Portugal in the summer and how it would be so much fun. We talked about going to this amusement park in the summer too and at one point she was laughing say that we had almost the whole summer planned out over an hour and a half on talking. Whoops. I work at Walmart if anyone was wondering and we are both 17. Thought I'd tell you for this part. She works in returns and she gave me this flower the first day we really talked and I put it in my locker in some small little cup because it was a small flower. Since I worked like 3 straight days with her we have been checking up on it to see how it is and I told her that I would text her with a picture of it tomorrow since I am working and she isn't. I know, lol. It sounds really lame but it's made for conversation and such. Anyways. Back with updates later on in the week, haha. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 We are both part timers at this job so I think she would be working on the weekend. But going back to todays conversation on msn she was telling me how cool it would be for me to go with her to Portugal in the summer and how it would be so much fun. We talked about going to this amusement park in the summer too and at one point she was laughing say that we had almost the whole summer planned out over an hour and a half on talking. Whoops. I work at Walmart if anyone was wondering and we are both 17. Thought I'd tell you for this part. She works in returns and she gave me this flower the first day we really talked and I put it in my locker in some small little cup because it was a small flower. Since I worked like 3 straight days with her we have been checking up on it to see how it is and I told her that I would text her with a picture of it tomorrow since I am working and she isn't. I know, lol. It sounds really lame but it's made for conversation and such. Anyways. Back with updates later on in the week, haha.Dude, whatever helps you get tail I kid though. From what I am reading it seems like you got everything all set on your end. Is she Portuguese? If so, Depending on whether he parents are first generation or not, they might be strict as hell when it comes to hanging out with boys. (Portuguese tradition, I am lucky I am a guy in my family. All my female friends have a tough time when it comes to being friends with guys. I can name two right off the top of my head that weren't allowed to talk to or hang out with guys till they turned 18.) You should go to a Portuguese Saints Feast with her. Those are amazing and a great time to bond with someone and learn their culture. All in all though, your doing a good job it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 21, 2008 Share Posted April 21, 2008 Yeah, she's Portuguese. She was born in Toronto though so she doesn't have the accent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred13 Posted April 22, 2008 Share Posted April 22, 2008 We are both part timers at this job so I think she would be working on the weekend. But going back to todays conversation on msn she was telling me how cool it would be for me to go with her to Portugal in the summer and how it would be so much fun. We talked about going to this amusement park in the summer too and at one point she was laughing say that we had almost the whole summer planned out over an hour and a half on talking. Whoops. I work at Walmart if anyone was wondering and we are both 17. Thought I'd tell you for this part. She works in returns and she gave me this flower the first day we really talked and I put it in my locker in some small little cup because it was a small flower. Since I worked like 3 straight days with her we have been checking up on it to see how it is and I told her that I would text her with a picture of it tomorrow since I am working and she isn't. I know, lol. It sounds really lame but it's made for conversation and such. Anyways. Back with updates later on in the week, haha. Off-topic, but Canada's Wonderland? I can't wait to go on Behemoth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 22, 2008 Author Share Posted April 22, 2008 Man, Sandlot. Looks like everything's going on your way. Just keep it up bro. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 22, 2008 Share Posted April 22, 2008 Off-topic, but Canada's Wonderland? I can't wait to go on Behemoth. Yeah. :wtg: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigers94 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I feel a little cheezy asking advice on a forum, but here it goes. Ok, so I like a girl and we are somewhat close, we talk everyday in class. Our grade is going to go to Cleveland and during the trip, we're going on a dinner cruise. It's basically like a fancy dance. I need advice on what to do. I want to ask her, but I'm a really shy dude, and this stuff is all pretty new to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 24, 2008 Author Share Posted April 24, 2008 I feel a little cheezy asking advice on a forum, but here it goes. Ok, so I like a girl and we are somewhat close, we talk everyday in class. Our grade is going to go to Cleveland and during the trip, we're going on a dinner cruise. It's basically like a fancy dance. I need advice on what to do. I want to ask her, but I'm a really shy dude, and this stuff is all pretty new to me. All I've got to say is that you need to talk to her frequently and just keep talking to her. And when the time is right ask her. One more thing. You are identical to me, man. I'm way too shy around girls. Hope it works out. All the best. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigers94 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Seriously, I can talk to her and stuff, but I freak out at even the thought of asking her out. The trip is in May, so I got two months... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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