ronmexico Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 2 months? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigers94 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 ...Is that supposed to be a lot or a little? And it will probably be less because I plan on asking her out earlier than that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I don't get how May is 2 months away, much more like a week away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
matrocks12 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I spent a couple weeks on a class trip with this girl, and we got really tight. Now, she doesn't even say hi to me in the hallway. I don't want to go out of my way to talk to her and try and get her back, because that might creep her out. Any suggestions on what to do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred13 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 If you're just asking someone to dance, just straight up go for it. Women do not take dancing as a sign of a relationship, heck I've been to parties where I've danced with a different girl for almost everysong, that doesn't mean I want to hook up with any of them. Unless you're doing the tango or something, just go for it. It helps build rapport, then ask the girl out on a real date when you get back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrigleyville33 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Heres a quick tip in general for anyone. If you want to go ask a girl out DO NOT get a friend to do it for you. It just isn't the same. Girls like it a lot more if you grow the balls to ask her straight up. I've asked a couple girls out, each one would be that I would ask them face to face. All of them so far have said yes . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Heres a quick tip in general for anyone. If you want to go ask a girl out DO NOT get a friend to do it for you. It just isn't the same. Girls like it a lot more if you grow the balls to ask her straight up. I've asked a couple girls out, each one would be that I would ask them face to face. All of them so far have said yes .Does that work the same the chicks you have harassed also? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaysFTW Posted April 24, 2008 Author Share Posted April 24, 2008 I got a question: does asking a girl out on AIM or MSN count equally as if you ask her face-to-face? Because I cannot talk to girls that I like in-person. I don't know why, but I can just talk to them on AIM and not in-person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 NO! NO NO NO NO! they will think you have no balls. ask her in person. but thats what i have a problem with, actually asking a girl out. the fear of rejection is whats stopping me. in JH i got rejected at least 10 times, i was 0-10 on that btw. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 AIM/MSN asking out also tends to run the risk of miscommunication, like, I've asked a girl out and then she realized that I wanted to take her out as more then friends, fucked me over a [bit, but life goes on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Do not keep a relationship over aim or online. Use the phone and talk in person a lot. Trust me, it sucks otherwise and you'll get screwed over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Do not keep a relationship over aim or online. Use the phone and talk in person a lot. Trust me, it sucks otherwise and you'll get screwed over. I wouldn't say that. I use aim a lot, because I'm almost always on when I'm at a computer. I don't use a phone because I don't like phones. If you're slick rick on aim, then by all means use it to your own advantage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NYM Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 I'm staying out of relationships until college. Right now I'm content with just hanging out with whoever whenever. No commitment. Life's good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kccitystar Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 the last girl I dealt with chose to stick with her abusive ex-boyfriend instead of me. I never spoke to her again out of the sheer stupidity of that move. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrigleyville33 Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Does that work the same the chicks you have harassed also? What are you getting at? You are some fat 18 year old who sits on his a$$ all day playing xbox and going to community college. Don't even bring up that "I have done more than you have" thing because I'm still waiting on that tape that you apparently said you had to see if you weren't lying. Which is completely b.s. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandlot Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 Whoa guys. Lets not get ahead of ourselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 24, 2008 Share Posted April 24, 2008 wrigleyville you need to chill the hell out. But bigrog, you definitely provoked him which was uncalled for. Let's leave this thread to giving guys and girls (if theres any here) advice with relationships, this isn't the flame war thread. I know I'm not a moderator and have no power whatsoever, but I think this is a bit immature. I know I've said a lot of immature things here as a member, but I like to think that I've improved and know where to draw the line now. Anyway, back on topic. Here's my tip of the day: 99% of the time, your ex-girlfriend is your EX for a reason. Getting back with her when everything seems right isn't a great choice. Never rush a decision in a relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tigers94 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Ok, I have a few weeks to do it. I just can't seem to get over the fear of rejection and idk what to do. Should I wait a bit as we talk more? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 I was kidding with him. If he had an issue he could have IM'd me on aim, he does that for everything else. And talk to me about Community College and sitting and playing xbox, The professors at my college also teach at my state university for one. The only difference between my community college and that state college is: A) No Dorms on campus About 1/10 the tuition C) Less classes available You play as much as me and later then me also on xbox live. And I have been going to the gym and look completely different from that 3 year old picture you saw that you are basing your judgment on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Ok, I have a few weeks to do it. I just can't seem to get over the fear of rejection and idk what to do. Should I wait a bit as we talk more? Everyone has it at some point, just think, what's the worst that can happen if you get rejected? Worst case scenario, it gets awkward between you two, you'll get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seanzarelli Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Like everyone else has said...STAY AWAY FROM AIM! unless that is you are in a long distance relationship that actually, well um...works! lol When chatting with a girl on AIM and you go to ask her out, they laugh and they will start treating you differently. Trust me, I was young and dumb once and tried it, but I played it off by saying that it was really my only means of communication with her because that semester in high school we didn't have any classes together and different lunch sessions. However, the girl still didn't treat me the same as she had been. Now, for something funny, but totally kickass at the same time. I've known this girl for about a year that I met on MySpace in one of the chatrooms. She's an extremely cute hispanic girl and has a body (I'd could post a couple pics in here, but I'm not gonna do that), so we got to chatting, and it turns out she's a lesbian. Never been with a guy, never had interest in being with a guy. Well, in the year we've known each other, we've actually gotten pretty close (we talk on the phone once or twice a week) and then the other day we were talking, and she told me that if we ever meet that right then and there, she'd want to be with me. And now here's the dilemma. Next month I am heading back east to visit friends for about a week or two, and where she lives is about 4-5 hours out of the way. She doesn't know that I am planning this trip either. So my question is this. Do I go out of my way and see her, or stick to original plans and just forget this whole thing happened? I'm sure if you saw her pics that would help, but that's just something I'm not gonna do out of respect to her privacy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stcardinal Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 My current relationship problem can be found on my website. http://basicstories.franklieu.com But since yesterday, it has gotten quite grim. She thinks its best if we end our relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kccitystar Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 She is 25. At this point the parent should have less control over who she can/can't date Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D-Unit Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Anybody think it's weird to be interested in girls you meet online? I always thought it was somewhat weird until I started talking to this girl and she seems like a nice girl. Looks really good too, but I feel a good connection talking to her, which is impossible for me to achieve with anybody in this town I live in, and I'm already sure she likes me. By the way, she lives in Florida. Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seanzarelli Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 D, I know what you mean. I always thought it was weird, but with it being hard for me to make friends as it is, mostly because of my attitude and way of life, I figured I'd try the online thing and see where it took me. I was 15 (23 now) when I first met someone online. I was in South Carolina at the time, she was in New York, and that Summer I was going up to NY to visit my dad because that's where he lived and still does, and she was only about 30 miles away. So since my cousin could drive, we met her and her friend at the mall, and it was all gravy from there on out. And we would actually have a Summer fling whenever I was up in NY until I was 18 when she moved. Since then, I've probably met 10 or 11 different people and all but 2 have been good, and we are still friends. I also like trying to make friends online too, because you never know when you might be in their neck of the woods or them in yours, and might need a place to crash or something. And in fact, my mom met my stepdad from online as well. I think it's much safer nowadays then it was in the past. But back to you, just keep talking with her man, but don't get too attached. Being so far away, it will start to eat at you, mostly the increase of jealousy. Because you know there's that chance she might be hanging out with another dude or you hanging out with another girl. I guess that's all I can really say right now. But, I wouldn't think of it as being weird to be interested in someone you met online. Because if you think about it, more and more people are engaging in relationships from people they've met from online. Hope this has helped at least a little. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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